19.1 Summer 2021

D. S. Waldman The Etiquette of Grief

Children sometimes cover their eyes to become
invisible—to remain, for a bit longer,

children. To remain invisible,
the wide-eyed dead refuse to blink, becoming

the wide, dead whites of their eyes. How,
through the same window, both sunlight and darkness

might enter a room. Sunlight, then darkness
—is that what dying is like? Pivoting might

be like dying. Moving one way—think of
a rose, its red unspeakable and dark

—then turning—now, a litany of roses
around a gravesite. No one speaking.

Standing around a gravesite like children,
wanting, but unable, to cover their eyes.


D.S. Waldman’s work has recently appeared or is forthcoming in Poetry Northwest, Copper Nickel, New Letters, and Poetry International, among others. He holds a BA from Middlebury College and is currently enrolled in the MFA program at San Diego State University.